he is angry because (according to him) i am:
- taking too much time,
- inefficient (unlike him),
- having issues with how other people (like him) deal with things (which i don’t have to waste my thoughts on, according to him).
i am angry because (i’m gonna say this ONCE and FOR ALL):
- IT’S NOT EVEN MY FAULT.
- SCREW EFFICIENCY, I AM AS EFFICIENT AS I AM METICULOUS AND PATIENT. I DON’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THE WAY I DEAL WITH THINGS, SO WHY SHOULD HE.
- I DON’T HAVE ISSUES WITH HOW OTHER PEOPLE DO THINGS, I HAVE ISSUES WHEN HOW THEY DO THINGS AFFECT ME. I BELIEVE THAT MY WAY IS THE BETTER WAY (because when you rush into things you may not see it when they fall apart).
only fools rush in. and i believe that i am not a fool.
i believe in reading through documents before signing them, reading through forms before filling them.
i believe in reading through agreements before involving myself, and the people around me, with them.
i believe in that kind of SAFE life practices.
i don’t have a problem with that.
what i do have a problem with, is people who snap and scream at me (in a random place) just because i disagree with such impetous, reckless ways.
this is how i live.
how i try to avoid mistakes and take care of things.
it’s unbelievable for you to judge my entire life ethics based on this ONE thing,
no, it’s downright insulting.
i don’t care too much about my pride right at this moment, but something about your words gave me a hint of how repulsive you find my way of life to be,
and i can’t help but be surprised by your lack of insight and hindsight in a situation like this.
you can’t get angry at me for refusing your way of life.
this is MY life, afterall.